What to do when your soul wilts

When I led a six-week canoe trip through Northwest Ontario, every day was a joyous adventure of discovery, pure freedom, and appreciation of wilderness beauty.

Day after day we paddled endless watery miles, savoured the unique and isolated surrounds, soaked up the physical challenges of straining muscles against bitter headwinds, hauling gear across portages, swatting mosquitoes, shivering in the rain, baking in the sun.
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How collective wisdom can leverage results

I’m just back from an extraordinary three days with my own mastermind, the Thought Leaders Business School. We meet quarterly to review and celebrate our achievements and craft our plan for the next quarter. I had the special privilege of being asked to share my story – my epic business struggles over the last thirteen years, culminating in my quantum success since February this year. I was definitely intimidated – this was a room full of 125 brilliant thought leaders – many with outstanding practices making massive contributions in Australia.

I told my story, with all its lumps and bumps including cancer, despair, and nearly giving up many times. Until I chose something different, found the right tribe – Thought Leaders Business School, and hit it out of the park these last three months. I booked more business in ninety days than I’ve earned in a whole previous year. This is quadrupling my best results so far.
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The real secret to Gravitas

Today I spoke for a group of inspiring leaders on the subject of what it takes to get heard, get respect, and get results. The leaders we admire have gravitas – defined officially as ‘seriousness or sobriety in word or deed’. From my perspective that all sounds a little too pompous! We can have gravitas without being grave.

Historically we have identified leaders with gravitas through their ability to conquer and defy others.

Think Might is Right. Think Alexander the Great and Julius Caesar. 2000 years later and both are deemed two of the most influential people to have lived. This legacy of ‘might is right’ has stayed with us: Napoleon, Stalin, Hitler, and even Kim Jong Un. Tony Abbott’s threat of ‘shirt-fronting Putin’ is a hangover of this concept of gravitas. And it falls short of creating a real contribution.

Once we move past the hairy-chested thumping and puffing, we move to a new meme of gravitas:

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